Thursday, 26 February 2015

Make way

                                           I have been staying in Bangalore(major IT hub in India) for more than 5 years now. Many things have changed so far in the city except one which ought to have changed. Or better shouldn't have existed in the first place. That being not giving way to an ambulance. As most of my fellow Bangloreans are aware the traffic conditions are pretty bad. We sometimes get stuck in traffic for a very long time taking almost 1 hour to cross one signal. And during that time we might have come across an ambulance trying get out of that mess. But we never give way to it. If someone is giving way then the rest instead of following the same try to get out ourselves. These proves how inhuman we have become. In our hurry to reach our destination we are ready to go to any means. Reaching our destinations might be very important but might not be matter of life and death as for the person who is in the ambulance waiting to get treated. But still most of us ignore that fact.
                                            Another sad fact is that sometimes the traffic personnel present at that signal also don't come to help that poor ambulance driver. Traffic police as well as if possible the local police should try to ease  the traffic for the ambulance to pass through. It should be a part of their duties as well. They can try to lead the way for the ambulance by clearing the traffic on the way. This will help a lot. They should also try to create awareness among the general public regarding this.
                                            Think what might be the plight of the ones who are with the patient in the ambulance praying dearly for his/her life. How would we feel if we were in their place and someone close to us is there waiting to get treated? Hope no one has to face that. But it happens daily and not once repeatedly. Everyone of us should be ashamed of ourselves and try to make way for an ambulance next time we see. And not only giving way yourselves but also asking and making others to follow the same. We can sacrifice few moments of our time so that we can save someones life. Lets make sure all of us, not only in Bangalore, let it be in any place, any city or any country we will try to make way for an ambulance with a patient in it.

Friday, 23 January 2015

To love or not to...............

                                Which is more sad to love and loose or not to love ever? ? ?
                                This isn't a very tricky question. But the answer just depends on the fact if you lost your love or found it. For the former love was beautiful but for the later sad. But unless and until you are in love you can't know either.
                                 So what is more important to love or to be with whom you love. We can't choose either it just happens as it has to. Either we try to avoid or to accept, nothing changes. We can't put conditions to fall in love only if we can be with that person. As we have heard so many times before if the love is true and meant for you, nothing can take it from you.
                                  Love doesn't thrive on conditions but emotions and will always be the same whatever time we may be in. So instead of worrying about outcomes we just need to acknowledge our emotions and be true to ourselves. Outcomes may not be the ones which we want but love is not wrong neither can we blame the person. Its just that the time wasn't correct nor were you suppose to be together forever. But this doesn't make your love less true.
                                 It isn't worth worrying so much, feel what you can and enjoy it till it lasts- for days, months, years or lifetimes. Since however long it may last, time is never enough for love. There are many people who keep their feelings hidden for the sake of loosing. The greatest mistake is hiding your feelings from yourself. Acknowledge what you feel so that you won't have the fear. Even if you lost the person the love is never lost. It will be always there. So stop worrying and accept your feelings. Be true to yourself rest will happen as its suppose to.


Love and be loved....................